Matthew 16:24 says “Then Jesus said to His disciples, “If anyone wishes to follow Me [as My disciple], he must deny himself [set aside selfish interests], and take up his cross [expressing a willingness to endure whatever may come] and follow Me [believing in Me, conforming to My example in living and, if need be, suffering or perhaps dying because of faith in Me]”.
Just as in the natural terms and conditions apply to whatever engagement or assignment you may find yourself, the same principle applies in the pursuit or in following Jesus.
When it comes to following the Lord, the terms and conditions applicable is for one to deny him or her self.
Self denial is when you selflessly give yourself to God. This involves giving up on your pleasure, time and all that belongs to you in order to love and to follow the Lord.
Without self denial it will be impossible to serve and follow the Lord.
Denying yourself may be seen as costly but that is the only way we can follow the Lord. You see, there is nothing like costless Christianity. You must sacrifice your comfort to follow God.
The Bible teaches how the disciples of Jesus left all they had and followed him. Some left their wealth, occupations and families. In fact, they left all. See Luke 18:28 “Peter said, “Look, we have left all [things-homes, families, businesses] and followed You.”
Do not be self centered. Be zealous to respond to God’s call to follow. All that you are and posses is but for a moment. But God will perpetually reward you for your diligent art of following. Don’t deny God in any way, you just follow.
Read: Luke 9:23 “And he said to them all, If any man will come after me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross daily, and follow me”.
Study: Acts 20:22-24