
There are certain people God specifically commands us to honour, and parents are high on that list. Whether father or mother, your parents deserve honour. This is not merely a suggestion or something based on feelings. It is God’s instruction to every child.
Honour goes beyond words. It involves respect, appreciation, esteem, and right actions toward those you are called to honour. To honour someone means you recognize their value and treat them with dignity and importance.
When it comes to parents, honour is not only about saying kind things. It is expressed through obedience, respectful speech, care, support, gratitude, and the way you respond to them publicly and privately. In some seasons, honour may also involve helping them materially and standing by them when they are in need.
Never think you are doing your parents a favour by honouring them. Honour is a responsibility before God. They may not be perfect, but God still commands that they be treated with respect.
Sadly, some people dishonour their parents through harsh words, insults, neglect, pride, or public disrespect. Others make their parents feel unwanted or burdensome. This ought not to be so among believers. Honour does not humiliate. Honour does not mock weakness. Honour recognizes value and expresses it with humility.
The beautiful thing about this commandment is that it carries a promise. God says when you honour your father and mother, it will go well with you and you will enjoy long life on the earth. This means honour opens doors for divine blessing, preservation, and well being.
As you grow in life, never outgrow honour. No matter your status, achievements, education, or influence, always remember the place of your parents in your life. Speak to them respectfully. Appreciate their sacrifices. Support them where necessary. Let them feel valued and loved.
A person who learns honour positions himself for lasting blessings in life.
Read: Deuteronomy 5:16 “Honour thy father and thy mother, as the LORD thy God hath commanded thee; that thy days may be prolonged, and that it may go well with thee, in the land which the LORD thy God giveth thee.”
Prayer: Lord, give me a humble heart and the wisdom to honour my parents and all those to whom I owe honour. Amen.








